Friday 9 March 2012

Sharing Tools for Healers by Jim Self

I didn't have the time to introduce this video properly when I first posted it, but I really liked the answer Jim gave to a question from a healer. I've made some rough notes from it, as I do from time to time, for those who can't watch videos because of a slow connection or whose language isn't English. This is not a complete or exact transcription.

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The questioner/healer said that even though she has used all of Jim's 'tools' she still finds she still gets knocked off balance at times. But her clients don't even have a reference point on how to manage their energy, how to deal with the fear, the insecurity, the chaos and turmoil that is in their lives. They have none of the tools that she has. She asks how can she best start them off, what direction does she point them in?

Jim replies that a lot of people who are lightworkers, they hold energy, they have a sense of this spiritual shift, and have a role to play. At the same time they are a person with "stuff" in their space. They are learning specific skill sets, tools, abilities, one of which is to become masterful. It's about really beginning to live the life that we are learning about. Living that life means demonstrating that life.

He says the reason many people are coming to her (and to many other lightworkers) is because she is holding a level of Light in her space. Many people are also coming saying "I am broken , can you fix me?" It's quite a wonderful validation of her, except that they don't know how to manage her space. And so what happens is, they climb into her space, or into those little weak points that she doesn't know about, and that's where she gets knocked off balance.

All they are doing is finding that weak point in 'her' that reflects 'them'.
It's her picture first. All they are doing is showing her a part of her energy field that hasn't been cleared yet.

He says to her - stay in your own sense of wellbeing, and begin to realise that your job is not to 'fix', your job is simply to say 'hello'. And when I say 'hello' to you I say hello in a way that holds wellbeing, even though you feel you are broken, hurt etc.
So you don't 3rd dimension take pity, and you don't 3rd dimension try to 'heal' them, and you don't fix them, and you don't tell them what's wrong with them and what they 'should do'.

Jim goes on to say that you shift them to a state of wellbeing by changing the focus to something that IS more pleasing to them.



My thoughts - The idea, of course, is to raise ones vibration or frequency/consciousness, which is where all the healing, clarity, wellbeing etc can take place. As the solutions are never on the same vibration or wavelength as the problem. In 3D we tend to do the opposite, and wrestle our problems and challenges into the ground, struggle with it, focus on it exclusively (almost) rather than what IS working, use it as an excuse to lower our vibration, or get on the endless loop of processes by trying to figure it all out mentally.

I'm finding that it is more of an emotional journey than anything else, as that is how our inner being/divinity communicates. Not through language. Our outer 'reality' also speaks to us, because whatever we are experiencing we have attracted for some reason, otherwise it would not be in our experience. We can view it as an annoying problem or challenge we could well do without, or use it as the raw material (the contrast in life, which contains both what is 'wanted' and not wanted) to clear more of our stuck energy and emotional blockages. Resistance to it is what gets in the way. If we are emotional triggered by anything, it is ours. No matter how justified the feeling and no matter how it looks as though it is all coming from the 'outside' via people and circumstances.

This is good news, because we cannot control others anyway, nor manipulate external 'reality' through any action at all when we are not vibrationally aligned with our own source energy, inner being / higher frequency/ heart energy, or in emotional balance ourselves.
To get there, we actually have to take our minds OFF the perceived 'problem' to raise our frequency enough to a level where our actions are inspired ones, and not merely re-actions born out of learned habits, beliefs and feeling temporarily (heart/spirit) dis-connected from more of who we really are. We may judge others, their lives, our lives, and what we perceive as being 'wrong' or a 'mistake', but it is the mind that is doing the judging.

The heart doesn't judge, but somehow integrates the polarities into a more neutral (unattached, untriggered) observation mode, naturally. It is caring without the pity or judgement. Because these duality 'contrasts' are just opportunities in disguise. And it is often not until we have fully experienced everything we needed to in any situation to extract the 'gifts' (there is always a positive to every negative, there are always two sides of a coin) that we eventually come to appreciate that these were merely stepping stones to something much grander or more expansive in our experience.




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